VERSUS: How are you feeling at the moment?
Reiss Nelson: I’m feeling very good. I’m very confident, especially in my play at the moment. Things are good on the pitch. I’m just happy to do things for the community and just do good things in general.
Football is something that has enabled you to have many experiences. What are your earliest memories of playing?
Probably me in the house with my brothers, my sister and my mum. Getting the ball and literally just kicking it everywhere. My mum, shouting at me for hitting vases and all sorts. I just remember everyone being so happy. Football was always present within that. Everyone locally knew me and would see me with a ball at my feet. Wherever I would go, I would have a football.
As someone who is always giving back to the community and has siblings who have done the same, what does it mean to you to be opening this pitch at your former school?
This is something I’ve always had in my head and heart to do from when I was young. I remember it being around Year 5, and I made a promise to myself. If I got as far as I wanted to get, this [opening a football pitch at the primary school], is one of many things I would do to give back. This is a school that my sister used to work at, in the area that I grew up in, a stone’s throw away from my house is where the pitch is. When I used to be late for school, I would jump out the window and literally just run down to the school, so this location means a lot to me.
What does the word community mean to you?
Community means everything. Some people may not have their parents or daily mentors around. Community however is family. Whether that is friends or neighbours. People coming together and providing for those who don’t have. I’ve witnessed that in my life. My brother and sister were community workers and after school, I would run to Peckham and see my brother’s sessions. 30 odd kids would come out of the blocks and have a real energy and love for what they were being given.That is the great thing about community, everyone is helping each other and trying to provide. But we need to do more of it. That’s why I have always wanted to do this. That is why people like Sayce are leading the way and showing people how to do that properly.
Footballers are great examples of individuals who come together for a greater cause. What lesson can communities learn from football?
People are from all different backgrounds and we all come together for one common goal. In football that is to win games and trophies and win together. I think that is the same for communities. If you are aligned, you can go further. If you are trying to do loads of different things, it doesn’t always move you forward. Whether that is agreeing on how to stop knife crime, coming together to implement food banks, I think so much more can be achieved. All align and come together for one cause, that would be the lesson.
You have the dream job of being a footballer but it wasn’t always a job. How important is it that kids can have football as a way of expressing themselves?
I feel that football allows everyone who plays to feel free. Loads of different people come together on a pitch to play this one game and express themselves. Everyone can be themselves when playing football. No one has to think about anything outside the game during the time they are playing. Nothing about their troubles or things affecting them. This game lets you feel free. That’s what I learned when I was young
It could have been a thing where certain things happened at home or I hadn’t had the best of days or there was family stuff, but I knew that football was there. I could go out, play football and come home happy.
South London is notorious for being a hotbed for talent. What is it about South that produces such ballers?
Can’t lie…I think it’s the Morleys! To be honest, I don’t know. When you break down the numbers of how many people from South make it, and then make it into the Premier League, and then go on to do amazing things, it’s crazy. I think it’s because there is so much raw talent and these kids are pushed to use it. They may be coming from rough backgrounds but football is the only thing on their mind: ‘My family may be in an unfortunate position but let me bang out football and see if I can change that. Let me do this every single day until I become the best at my craft.’
I think that is a massive part of it and is a trait that a lot of ballers from South carry in them. Literally, so many kids keep knocking on the door of greatness and keep training and playing, training and playing, until they get to that level.
As a footballer and young man, you have become a role model for how you have navigated through difficult times. What advice do you have for younger generations that will have to do the same?
Firstly, everyone has their own journey. Good things come to those who are persistent and give 100% to everything they do. That isn’t just football, that is life. Sometimes, people can have good things but things may be going bad for a moment of time. They might look elsewhere for an escape but if you concentrate and lock in on what you are facing, and you think about how you can get better, it all comes good in the end. I have had times where I felt really down. I felt like nothing was working, that I needed to move on from this or change everything, but I always had the main goal and the faith that It would all come right at the right time.
I believe a lot in God and believe the right things come to those who wait and do good for others. It’s funny because in sport, sometimes I think that people forget about the human side of it all. Sometimes we are perceived as robots with no feelings and we are only doing one thing. But I love fashion, I love music. If my friend brings out a song and asks me to promote it, I will help him. Sometimes you may get people who ask ‘why are you promoting?’ But I feel like it’s sad because professionals give their whole life and you get to a level where you are criticised for doing things you have always done. So as it relates to giving advice to the younger generation, I would say you have to be yourself all the time and embrace it.
What do you want the legacy of this pitch to be and what more do you want to do?
This is special because it’s the first pitch I have done. I feel like it’s come at a good time. This is my pitch, my primary school. I wanted the first one to be for the school I went to, but the ultimate goal is to do more. More in South. More around the world. That’s what’s in my heart. With the team, we have been building for the last two years and what we want to do is amazing. It has all the right elements of uplifting communities and ensuring that there are more Sanchos and more Tammys. This pitch right here is an example of providing a platform for young kids to be like their role models.
If you could tell a younger Reiss Nelson something, what would you tell him?
When you are young, you don’t know the future. I wouldn’t say anything. The struggles I had moulded me into the person I am today. The main thing for me would be to embrace it all. Laugh more, see my friends more, see my family more. But I would just carry on the life of younger Reiss and enjoy the journey.